He may simply have taken the house scissors because they do a better job. You are giving conflicting messages: you tell him it’s not OK to cut up his clothes, but give special scissors to cut things up with you say he needs to keep this private, but go out in public to buy things to enable him to do this. I also want you to look at this from your son’s point of view. (“I thought the problem was solved,” was a telling phrase.) The first thing I’d like you to do is concentrate on what it is you are worried about because, despite your protestations of it being OK, I do think you are worried, and by not voicing it you can’t address it. I’d welcome advice on how to raise a cross-dressing child, and how to approach this latest occurrence of cutting his own clothes. Recently, the scissors disappeared again and my husband said he’d found a onesie that had been cut up. He was happy and we thought the problem was solved. W e put these, with his own pair of scissors, in a box in his room. I took him shopping so he could make a selection and my husband took him to buy fabric to make his own items. This was when he said he had been trying to make a bra and he’d done a pretty good job.
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